My schedule has definitely intensified over the past few weeks – I have 2 more committee meetings taking up time after school, at least an hour or two of reading and writing each night for my Masters, roughly 3-4 hours per week for my new calling in Young Womens, regular chores/laundry/gym/cooking etc, and spending all my extra time working on my new blog update (to be revealed soon!).
{Also today and tomorrow I’ll be working 13 hour days for Parent-Teacher Conferences – thankfully I get Friday off though!}
I’m not complaining. This is not only 100% normal and doable, but also way less than most supermoms tackle in a single DAY. It just means I have to prioritize and plan much more than I usual do. I’m now hyper-aware of when and where I’m spending my hours.
A few days ago I opened up my bloglovin to find hundreds of unread posts, some most for blogs I haven’t caught up on in a month or more.
Then I opened Twitter to scroll through and see tweets from people that I had to stop and ask “Wait. Who is this? Is this a blogger? Random person I followed back? Douchey guy from high school that just subtweets girl problems?”
Next it was Instagram, to much the same effect. “Who is this girl? I don’t even like her outfit. Why can I see more boobs than your face, sweetie? Why am I following 100 random small fashion companies?”
I have a stack of 3 books I’ve checked out from the library and started, but not finished.
I publish my little brother’s letters on a blog and post them on his Facebook and Twitter to make the posts accessible to his friends to keep in touch. I noticed that MY BABY BROTHER, who isn’t even in the continental US or tweeting regularly has almost 500 followers.
I’ve been working on my blog update and thinking a lot about the type of blogger I want to be and if I’m the type to ever have hundreds of followers or sponsors or the whole shebang. How much do I really care about the internet? What does it mean for my life?
So this is a reminder to you, Danica Holdaway. Because you forget this all the time.
It’s ok to unfollow tweeters you find boring and Instagrammers you find slutty.
It’s ok if people unfollow you or don’t follow you in the first place. It’s about quality, not quantity. Don’t compromise your humor, beliefs or personality for a number.
It’s ok to not read the “IT” blogs that everyone seems to love. Sometimes things just aren’t for you.
It’s ok if you don’t feel the desire to sponsor or be sponsored.
It’s ok if you don’t post every day or even every week. This is YOUR blog, not anyone else’s.
It’s ok if you don’t read all the blog posts each day. They’ll survive.
It’s ok if you don’t think of something hilarious or cute every single day. Absence makes the heart grow fonder or something?
It’s ok to blow off an hour to just read, or nap, or Pinterest. Your head will explode if you don’t.
Take a breath, Danica. Blogging is weird and kind of stupid, but fun. That’s all it needs to be.
Let those Instagram, Twitter and Facebook icons rest. Social Media is awesome, but shouldn’t be a chore.
Be yourself and let the internet world work for YOU, not the other way around.
Incidentally, I love all you readers. You make my life better and I love you. I love you! Thanks for everything. You keep me going and keep me inspired. Big hugs coming through this screen for you.
xoxo Gossip Girl/Danica